“You are not actually chasing the goal. You’re chasing the feeling that you hope attaining the goal will give you.” – Danielle LaPorte
We are just a few days shy of a brand new year.
Who do you want to BE in 2015?
How do you want to FEEL?
Every year you set out to make “goals” for the New Year.
And every year it’s the same thing:
- This year you’ll pay off the MasterCard.
- This is the year you’ll finally quit smoking.
- This year you’ll lose that 10 lbs.
- This year you’ll really run that marathon.
- This year you’ll travel more.
When you make New Year’s resolutions, ultimately you’re hoping that when you cross it off your list you’ll be fulfilled.
That your heart will sing. That you can finally relax and savor in your happiness.
Except more often than not, this doesn’t happen.
Even when you meet your objectives, you wonder if you aimed too low, or took too long, or if you could have done it better.
And when you fall short, you come down on yourself ike a ton of bricks.
So you make the next goal, hoping it’ll give you everything the last one didn’t.
This is a self-defeating cycle that’s burning you out.
The Q is … How do you change it?
I’ve got a solution and that’s what this episode of The Brandprov Show is all about:
[youtube]http://youtu.be/NxwzLe5UOh0[/youtube] It’s time to get clear about your CORE VALUES. To start with the FEELING first … then put a plan in place behind that. So now … my Q this week to you is NOT what is your new years resolution or goal …it’s:
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