“Everyone shines given the right lighting.” – Susan Cain
I got the chance a few years ago to hear keynote speaker, Susan Cain. She is the author of “Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking.”
Her talk totally got my attention.
Here’s why:
I found out that most people have NO CLUE the real difference between introverts and extroverts.
Example:
99.9% of the time people assume I’m a hands down extrovert.
And I can’t blame them for assuming. I’m super social, I do Improv, I have tons of energy, and am always up to something new.
Yet actually … I’m a bit more of an Introvert than people think.
A “moderate” introvert to be exact, according to Susan Cain’s “Quiet Revolution Personality Test.”
Click HERE to take it for yourself!
Honestly, before I really knew the difference between the two, I too just assumed I was an extrovert.
Surprise, I’m not a full blown extrovert after all.
I actually crave solitude and plan for it in my week. I prefer to work alone. I enjoy silence. I hate talking on the phone. I prefer deeper one-on-one conversations as opposed to large group discussions. I could stay in an entire weekend and DO ABSOLUTELY NOTHING (ah bliss!).
Now don’t get me wrong, I love to be social and I have no problem speaking before I think (so working on that!) … however … what really charges me up is my downtime.
So after hearing Susan speak, it felt good to come out and own my “silent swagger.
I also like to think that introverts can make some of the best improvisers … because improv is all about listening … taking your time with a scene and connecting with the present moment.
Whether you are in intro or an extro … it’s important to be clear … because that means you can honor what you need.
It also got me thinking …
Could making an “assumption” about who someone really is backfire on us?
That’s what we are digging into this week … click below to watch this weeks video:
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Now, I’d love to hear from you … Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
I LOVE reading your comments so make sure you so “HOLLA back” in the comments below!
Also, I’d love to work with you or your company …
I speak, coach and train on my Brandprov ™ Framework. So check out my speaking page right here on my website to find out how to work with me.
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As always, thank you for watching, reading and sharing this video
XO,
Judi
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