- Why are you putting yourself down?
- You are totally insulting the person giving you the compliment.
- The “but thanks” is super insincere.
- You show no self love.
- You look really insecure.
- Do you not think you are beautiful?
- Do you not think you are worthy?
- Learn how to graciously accept the compliment!
- First, you must understand accepting the compliment does not make you concieted. It’ makes you awesome.
- Second, it’s ok to be proud of something while being graceous and grateful at the same time.
- Third, when you accept a compliment you will inspire others to do the same. Set a good example!
- Lastly, just say THANKS!!! (then shut up and smile)
- Don’t Boomerang compliment!
- Responding to a compliment with a compliment is not polite. Even though it feels like it.
- Why? Because it signals that insted of listening and recieving the praise, you are formulating a “made up” compliment.
- This feels fake and is more about you and how uncomfortable you feel. So it’s not a real compliment and does more damage than good.
- Instead, just say thanks and offer up a compliment another time when it will seem more authentic and sincere.
- Denying the compliment insults the giver!
- If someone compliments you they have observed something they feel deserves a compliment. Yay you!
- So when you deny them you are basically saying they don’t have good taste or judgement.
- You are also totally blocking the good energy that is flowing from them to you.
- It’s totally rude so say thanks and enjoy the good vibes!
- Allow yourself to receive the good energy a compliment gives you!
- When you accept and recive a compliment … good energy immediately enters your body.
- This brings you a rush of joy, happienss and peace.
- Don’t deny yourself of this feeling … it’s the power of being alive!
Be Well. Be Inspired!
Judi
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